I want to tell you that as a sugar baby, the way to seek arrangements with a sugar daddy who says, "I think you're sexy and would be interested in dating you" is to flirt. Whether it's on an online sugar daddy dating site or app or in real life, flirting isn't about flirting, it's about showing interest and curiosity and piquing interest.
I know that even extroverted sugar babies don't know how to flirt with sugar daddies, much less want to. Because they thought it was childish, almost classless. But I've got news for you: if you don't flirt with sugar daddies, you'll get results like this: a good conversation, and that's it. That means you won't hear from him online, and he may not invite you to lunch offline. Wait, you're not looking for a friend, are you? When you see a sugar daddy who is attracted to you, you want to be seen as an attractive sugar treasure! You want people to think they like being with you and having sex with you, don't you? Now, don't get mad about sex. Don't you? When you are attracted to someone, you usually imagine hanging out with them, kissing them, holding their hand, or jumping on the bed. Men are no different, although they may skip other things and just fantasize about sex! But if you can pique his interest, he will definitely be attracted to you! So how do you do that? Here are 4 ways to get sugar daddy's attention online and off so you can get him to ask you out again and again:
1. Show clear interest. A simple "I want to talk to you" isn't enough, because everyone says it, and it's likely to fall into the "she's just being polite" category. Instead, you should add something to it. For example: "it was nice talking to you. I wish I could do it again. I look forward to our next conversation!"It clearly shows that you are open and confident that you will always be attractive. And it makes a big difference to ask him out, because you're waiting for his choice, so after you say that, stop! You help him feel safe and grateful. He knows that if he asks you, you will say yes. If he is interested, he will take action.
2. Show off. I know it might be hard for you, because a lot of sugar babies can't do it. We don't like to show off in front of people we're interested in, and that's because it's told to be proud and selfish. Real women are humble and let men shine, right? No, this is nonsense! If you want to help sugar daddy get to know you, you have to get over it. Believe me, they want you to show off! If you have the confidence to tell him who you are, you will get attention and dates. You will be impressive and perhaps a little charming. One caveat, though: don't give him long speeches. Keep them short and true.
Whether online or offline, it's important that you truly show who you are and what your strengths are. The right people are attracted to you and the wrong people are not. Isn't that perfect?
3. Reveal the dribs and drabs of your sweet soul! I urge you to answer this question out loud: what do I like about him? What do I want him to know about me? This will help you speak up so you can communicate in an honest and open way. When you and sugar daddy communicate online, be honest and write something real about yourself. You can even share a funny or embarrassing thing that happened to you today. This shows him that you're willing to open up and not take things too seriously. Don't you find these qualities appealing? Tell him you're happy to take your niece to the park and swing with her. Tell him you're studying French because you dream of going to Paris. Don't focus only on your accomplishments and how perfect your life is. It's not the link people look for in love. Just try to show the little bits of your sweet soul, don't hide it.
4. Compliment him. Have you noticed that most men use compliments to connect with women?"What beautiful eyes you have!" "your job sounds great!""You're so cute! And so on are the words men often use to praise women. So why don't you treat your potential sugar daddies like this? Of course, this takes a different approach, but everyone likes to be complimented. Sugar daddies love to know that you think they're smart, mature, charming and fun. Genuine compliments in these areas will take you a big step toward building connections. You can compliment him, he has great eyes and he will certainly appreciate you, but that's not enough to make a more substantive compliment.
A confident, mature sugar daddy needs to hear that it's not just that you think he's cute or that you like his dog, he values what's inside. Like telling him you agree with what he says; Ask him sincerely for his opinion; Ask him to recommend a book or restaurant. Tell him you admire his work or that it sounds interesting. Tell him you want to know more about things that interest him. When you're on the Internet, pick something that you think is different than thousands of other sugar babies probably aren't. After all, every sugar baby says he's cute or likes his dog. Instead, tell him that you think his job is cool and ask him what he likes to do besides work. It has to be different, and believe me, when you do it, you will stand out and he will want to look at you again. If he doesn't end up asking you out, at least you're helping a good person feel good about themselves, right?
Finally, don't fall into the trap of thinking flirting is tacky or you're not good at it. Flirting is definitely for mature dates; We just did it a little differently. Use these tips to enjoy the positive response you get and the power it gives you. I'm sure you'll go from thinking flirting is a necessary evil to looking forward to the next opportunity to connect and share yourself with a good sugar daddy!